• 1
    ANDY, FATHER OF THREE.

    “Take as much paternity leave as you can afford. And switch off your ‘work brain’”

  • 2
    JASON, FATHER OF TWO.

    “Have nappies and a change of clothes within arm’s reach at all times: there will be a poop explosion. It will happen, so don’t get caught unprepared”

  • 3
    GARETH, DAD TO A 7-MONTH-OLD-SON.

    “Work as a team with your partner and do some research in the lead up to the birth – there’s a lot to learn”

  • 4
    JOHNNY, FATHER OF TWO.

    “I wish I knew, before taking paternity leave, how little you’re realistically going to achieve. You might imagine doing something big with all that time off – a week’s holiday in the sun with the family, maybe – and while I’m sure that’s possible, most days it’s a triumph if you’ve managed to make it to the store, or tidied up the house”

  • 5
    JARON, FATHER OF TWO

    “Avoid over-planning – one activity a day with your child is plenty, then plan time for yourself”

  • 6
    CARNELL, DAD TO AN 11-YEAR OLD SON.

    “Know that you are no longer at the forefront of decisions made – your child will always come first”