Isn't it wonderful when your child feels confident and happy and can find the words to express it? Use our confidence building activities to help them vocalise what they love about being 'me'.
Why is inner beauty important?
It's common for people to talk negatively about themselves – in particular their appearance – as a shortcut for expressing emotional upset. Sometimes when feeling sad, lonely or short of energy, people express this as feeling “fat” or “ugly”. But neither fat nor ugly is a feeling, and speaking in this way blunts our young people's emotional vocabulary and places undue emphasis on their looks.
Linked to this negative body talk is awkwardness around accepting compliments, or feeling that talking about what we're good at is boasting or vanity. But recognising your talents and allowing yourself to value these characteristics is important to developing positive self-esteem.
That's why we created The Real Me confidence-building activities – to help young people feel confident in their strengths and abilities, and value those talents in others as well.
Use this video titled Inner Critic to encourage your child to talk openly and confidently about their appearance.
The Real Me – celebrating what makes us who we are
In the film, when we asked women about their flaws they answered quickly, but then struggled to find things they liked about themselves. Have you ever found it difficult to speak about what you like about yourself?
How to express The Real Me
1. Ask your child to find a photo of themselves that they like and print it out on paper or on The Real Me template here
2. We've started four statements below. Read each one and help your child think about their answers
3. Together, write each statement on the paper (or use the template) and fill in the blanks. If they can't find the words, they could draw something instead.
i. 'I am unique in many ways. These include...'
ii. 'Three things I enjoy doing…'
iii. 'Three things I'm good at…'
iv. 'Things I'm really proud of about my family's background and culture…'
4. When their The Real Me poster is complete, suggest your child shares this activity with their friends to help them think positively about all the things that make them unique
Action checklist Confidence-boosting activities to celebrate girls' inner beauty
